You’re a guy. You think about boobs and clean-shaven vaginas all day long; you’re ready for sex like a golden retriever is ready to play fetch.
For women, it’s a little more complicated. Studies show that women need their brains to release a chemical, vasoactive intestinal peptide, which increases blood flow to the pelvic area, subsequently swelling her inner and outer labia and causing her to feel a gnawing sexual arousal from the vagina outwards.
The good news; you don’t need to be a biochemist in order to get her panties off. Here are some tips to help you get your lady in the mood for love:
Whether you’re walking across the street, grabbing a cup of coffee or watching TV, touch your lady. Contact is always a very sexy thing. There are 40,000 nerve endings in the palm of a woman’s hand which can all act as sex-stimulating triggers that’ll lead to some wide open vaginas.
2. Wet & wild
Get in the bath, go to the beach, do the ALS bucket challenge, or just throw some Perrier on your woman at lunch – scientific studies show that a proximity to water puts women at ease and can open the gates to the sweet canyon of lubricated loving.
3. Strap on
A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that couples who had an adventurous or novel experience together had overall better relationships. So, join your woman on a rollercoaster or strap her to a bungee cord and throw her from a high precipice in order to up your chances for some adventurous sex.
4. Use a cucumber
Particular scents trigger chemical and behavioral reactions in people. Research conducted by Dr. Alan R. Hirsch, director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, shows that women experience increased vaginal blood flow when exposed to the scent of cucumber and fennel.
6. Make her dreams come true
The Journal of Sex Research claims that women think about sex 19 times per day on average. Find out what her sexual fantasies are and make them a reality – whether it’s something as simple as cunnilingus in the food court at the mall, or as extravagant as humping on horseback while galloping into the sunset.
7. Speak softly
Whether you’re both home alone or out at a noisy party, whisper into her ear, telling her what you’ll do to her later that night. For example, “Tonight I will soak your succulent breasts in a marinade of brandy and chocolate,” or “Tonight, I’m going to draw a map of the New York City subway system on your clitoris.”
8. Make it sweat
Researchers at the University of Texas at Austin found that physical activity made a woman’s body physically and chemically ready for sex by making it more sensitive to the touch and stimulating the sympathetic nervous system in the brain, which controls sexual arousal. According to the e-book, “Easy Orgasms,” the tissue that makes up a woman’s clitoris contains 8,000 nerve fibers that that are stimulated by repetitive movements. So, try taking your lady to the gym, doing a healthy workout, and then banging her in the locker room for some extra calorie-burning fun.
Women often equate your level of participation in household responsibilities with your level of sexual interest in them, claims author Adam Galovan, Ph.D.(c), of the University of Missouri. So, get on your rubber gloves (no! not for an anal inspection, although that could be kinky as well) and start scrubbing! You can make a house-cleaning afternoon sexy and stimulating by doing it naked!
It’s a commonly known fact that you want something the most when it’s denied to you. Based on that principle, you could announce to your woman that you refuse to screw her for a period of one month. You can be sure during that time, her kitten will start majorly craving some petting and her pelvis will start throbbing like a speaker at a drum & bass concert! Afterwards, the intense, wild, earth-shattering sex will make you think you’ve gone to heaven.