Seduction is an art form.
It’s like a well-played game of Chess. Its about making the right move, at the right time, in the right way, and unlike creating attraction, you have much more CONTROL over the process.
You have the benefit of laying out a game plan in advance. You have the benefit of being able to strategize each “move” for maximum effect.
But just like a game of Chess, in order to win, you have to master both the “internal” and “external” elements of the game. Because if you don’t master the “internal elements”, you can quickly become your own worst enemy.
I thought I’d bring this up now because everything else you’re going to learn will be useless if you can’t exert some “emotional control” over yourself. If you want to use “emotional” and “psychological” weapons on a girl, then you have to be aware of when these same weapons are affecting YOU.
In fact, even if you have no intention of ever using any of the material I’m teaching on a girl, its still important that you’re aware of how these weapons affect YOU. Because more than anything THIS is what will cause you to LOSE the game.
Let me ask you something, and I want you to be honest (with yourself)…
– Have you ever completely “lost it” once you started having feelings for a girl?
– And found yourself acting “needy”?
– Spending way too much time thinking about her?
– Felt jealousy and insecurity every time you weren’t around her?
– Put her on a pedestal and couldn’t bring yourself to make your move?
– Didn’t have the will-power or patience to “play the game” and showed way too much
interest way too soon?
Come on, I bet you have a specific girl in your mind where you made one or ALL of these mistakes.
These are just a handful of mistakes you might have made because YOU were experiencing psychological and emotional “friction”. This “friction” is what causes you to blurt out your feelings at ill-timed moments. It’s what causes you to drop everything you’re doing the minute she calls. It’s what causes you to ALWAYS be available for her (like a loyal little puppy dog).
This “friction” is exactly what you’re going to be creating in her (sneak peak here).
Which means that YOU’RE gonna use it to get HER sitting by the phone desperately waiting for you to call. To have her fantasizing about getting naked for you and offering you her body. Imagining a future where she’s your girlfriend. Even picturing what it would be like to marry you.
What it would be like on your honeymoon banging you all day inside some villa in the Greek Islands.
Seduction is a game of Friction and Release.
Here’s an example in practical terms:
Friction occurs when you’re waiting for her to text you back. Release occurs when she finally responds. Friction occurs when she breaks plans with you. Release occurs when she apologizes and meets you later that night.
A seduction MUST include both friction and release, because its during the friction that you become drawn more and more into the other person. Its the friction that makes the release more rewarding, and to win the game YOU must be the one more comfortable with the friction.
If I had to name the #1 reason most guys blow it with the girl they really want its because they are not comfortable with the “Friction”. But by the end of these lessons you’re no longer going to fear the friction, you’re going to embrace it, and use it to your advantage.
The Scrambler is ultimately a game plan of friction and release, and it will drive her crazy!