I am going to show you a rock solid technique you can use right away and get instant results. This technique is so effective that your ex will start missing you and will desperately desire you again right away! Ready to get started?
Do you know that humans normally have a tendency to take things for granted? We don’t really value the air we breathe but we only understand how important it is when we run out of it. So you see similarly your ex doesn’t really value you at the moment because by chasing them around you have already shown them that you need them.
But you see, the pain of loss is far greater than the pleasure of gain. Humans would do anything to save what they already have instead of gaining something new. I don’t why it is this way but this is the way human psychology functions.
Therefore, what you are going to do now is create a sense of loss in your ex’s mind where he/she would feel constant emptiness & a sense of anxiety. Pretty much like what you are going through right now. Okay here is what I want you to do. I want you to get in touch with your ex via SMS or E-mail. Why SMS or E-mail? Well, for the simple reason that your ex will always attend to your SMS or E-mail even when they have been trying to avoid you.
This is the message you must write in the text:
“I wanted to tell you that you were right about the breakup…I guess we do need space. Amazingly something wonderful happened recently…I guess when things happen they happen for a reason…You know what?”
Now this might sound incomplete with the final “You know what?” line, but that is the big trick here, leaving it incomplete will raise your ex’s level of curiosity and he/she will get highly eager to know the rest of the message. Don’t be too surprised if your ex calls you right away. This is where you need to be very careful. You should not return or attend their call right away, it is very important that you must follow through with my advice in my manual “Pull your ex back”.
Now let me tell you why this would work. By sending this message, you are doing everything that would persuade them to desire you once again. You are indirectly telling them “You don’t need them anymore”, this would seriously bother them as you have just told them that they don’t have you anymore, which would create massive feeling of loss within them. This will make them want you more than ever before.
You are telling them that you have already moved on and they will think how could you be over it so fast all of a sudden?
You are telling them that the breakup didn’t bother you that much. The fact that it didn’t bother you that much will bother them. They will find the fact that you got over them so fast hard to swallow.
By telling them that something wonderful recently happened in your life they would fear that maybe you already found someone else. This will trigger their fear of loss to unbearable levels, and at the same time the fear that you have found someone else will emotionally push them to know more and more.
The next step is very important, read carefully.
Now you will see magic unfold right in front of your eyes. I want you to listen very closely here. The guy/girl who was trying to avoid you all this time will literally be begging to have your attention after this point on. After you have sent the above mentioned message, your ex will probably call you or send you a message to know the rest. In this case tell them that you have something important to say and would like to get on the phone, to which your ex cannot really refuse since he/she is already jumping up and down with curiosity to know the rest of the message.
Once you are on the phone with them, make small conversation and then tell them that you have something really important you would like them to know, and then hesitate, say:
“Ummm! Well! I don’t know how to say this…But…I guess I shouldn’t tell you…But…” And then go quiet.
At this your ex would probably force you, but hesitate a bit more and then say:
“Sorry…I don’t think I should tell you…I gotta go!
And then hang up! That’s it, no more and no less! Don’t drag it, keep it short and hang up. Now do you know what you have done? Well, surprise surprise! Before your ex was just curious but now he/she would be burning with a compelling desire to know what you really wanted to tell them. They would find it hard to relax and get over the fact that you had something to say but never said it. And why would this work? Well, humans have a tendency to desire what they can’t have, and that desire turns into a burning obsession with time.
There is another great saying which goes: “Keep them hungry and they will keep coming back”.
Therefore now you have made your ex extremely hungry and he/she will keep coming back for more until you satisfy their hunger.
I am sure you’re really excited by now, but wait, let me strongly warn you here. This trick will work surprisingly well for you, BUT, doing this does not mean things will be smooth from this point on.