I want to give you a million dollar attraction tip, here it is: Watch late night talk shows like Kimmel, Letterman, Fallon, Obrien.
You weren’t expecting that were you? I’ll explain in a second.
Let me ask you a question: Do you know the purpose of these shows?
I mean do you know why every night some celebrity is sitting on a couch answering questions? You might think its to promote their latest movie or television show…It’s not.
In the span of the 10 minute interview they might mention their new project once for maybe 20 seconds. So then what is the point of the other 9 minutes and 40 seconds?
Its to get the audience to feel a connection, fascination, and attraction to the celebrity, and these celebrities are paying high priced publicists MILLIONS of dollars a year to tell them what to say and to teach them how to get the audience to fall in love with them.
Its worth studying what they’re doing. So what exactly is their “recipe”?
Well, they realize they only have about 9 minutes or so to do the job. So they make every second count. Every word that comes out of their mouth is designed to spark specific emotions in the audience. Every story they tell is carefully designed to get across a very specific message.
They realize they have to immediately “engage” you or else you’ll flip the channel and watch some other celebrity sitting on the couch. They’ve perfected creating what I call “Super Cool Cliff Notes” of normal conversation.
A famous dating coach named Mehow refers to this as the “Micro Value Bursts”, and he bases his entire game on this idea of short bursts of value.
Now, the first five minutes of this video is the standard promises and hype…But unlike a lot of these type of videos he actually gives A LOT of solid examples and real life case studies of how he puts this stuff to use.
Combine watching this video with studying some late night talk shows and you’ll begin to see an entirely new way of communicating with girls.
I can endorse this style as it fits in very nicely with the Make Small Talk Sexy method that I teach, and if you combine them together you really will begin to communicate like a high status celebrity getting grilled by Jimmy Fallon.