One of the questions that I get a lot, and one of the questions that we go over in Conversation Escalation is how to respond when a woman compliments YOU.
If you handle this wrong.. you run two big risks:
1. You can come across as over eager.
2. You can come across as boring and cold.
Personally, I always tried to play it too cool, and came across a bit cold and boring making any attraction the woman felt vanish quickly.
Over the years, I spent time watching some of the best naturals I know flirt with women. I began to really pay attention to how they would respond when the woman showed some interest with a compliment.
While cocky & funny doesn’t work in all situations, I really believe that if you get nervous or don’t know how to react when a woman compliments you, you’re best bet is respond in a cocky funny sort of way.
Here are some examples:
- “Wow, you’re really into me aren’t you?
- “Look, I’m not like other guys, this compliment thing isn’t going to get you anywhere.”
- “Already starting with the compliments, huh? Look, let’s just get this over with… go buy me the drink already.”
- “I’m not giving you my phone number, so just stop with the compliments.”
- “I’m cute? You’re cute too. What do you wanna do about it?”
- (Nice shirt/pants/etc) “Thanks! Would you like to take it off me?”
What’s great about the responses above, is that they all continue to flirt, without making anything awkward. Now, as you get more confident and secure around women, you can actually use the tension to your advantage, and don’t need to use humor to diffuse awkwardness.
But, in the meantime, if you’re looking for a good response, any of the above will do.
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