One of the most common misconceptions among men these days is that woman control the dynamic of when and who has sex. Lots of guys wrongly assume that women are the power dealers in the battle of the sexes – simply able to refuse or accept any guy that wants them. The truth is, that’s completely incorrect!
Women are just as susceptible to lust, charm and “game” as are men; just think of the women who complain about guys they’re dating who play around with them, won’t commit, cheat or treat them poorly. And yet, women keep going back to those “bad boys,” not the nice guys that treat them with respect.
Women cannot help but want the challenge and sexual tension of these bad boys while still craving the intimacy and respect of the nice guys. That conflict is a woman’s greatest dilemma: they stay awake at night dreaming about hot sex with underwear models equipped with porn star-size penises, and yet still have the respect and love they’ve seen in Disney movies and romance novels. So while you think that women are the more powerful of the two sexes in the bedroom, they are actually putty in the hands of the man who knows what they really want!
What is it they want? They want a real man. A real man is a confident, honest man. He is an exciting, powerful lover and not afraid to make decisions and take a leadership role in a relationship. This man will challenge a woman to push her boundaries and fulfill her unspoken desires. A real man knows how to bring out a woman’s instinctual passions as well. Women love to get slutty, but not be considered a slut. The only solution to her problem is to find a man that can respect her yet simultaneously tear off her dress and ravage her.
Only a real man can give a woman everything she wants, deep down. Therefore, this kind of man has all the power when it comes to sexual dynamics and dating. It’s not a power over women, but cultivating a personal power, that innately attracts women.
Even men with little or no sexual experience can be amazing lovers. In fact, the amount of bedroom experience a man has is irrelevant. Being highly attractive to women starts with knowledge, confidence and attitude. Cultivating the power of attraction within yourself, even if you are a virgin, can automatically bring you and the women you meet greater sexual adventures, more intense experiences, and even better orgasms.
The one guaranteed way to be a better lover is to understand that it’s not about getting lots of sex, it’s about obliging her need for really good sex. That will change everything.
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